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Obviously, saying no is no big deal — you're right about. It's your right to give blow jobs at a time and place of your choosing.
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You shouldn't feel pressured to do anything against your desire. There's no blow job-per-week quota. And I think we can all agree that a counter-offer of actual sex is a pretty reasonable compromise.
But that wasn't your question. You asked: Why was it such a big deal to your boyfriend?
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Now that he's settled down, ask him. Tell him you didn't mean to anger him or hurt his feelings. You just genuinely do not understand why he was so upset — and you'd like him to try to explain.
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If he balks, tell him you understand that sex is about give-and-take, but you need to know that your sex life is about your mutual needs and that you two can respect each other's boundaries. There's a I need an obedient submissive slut he might clam up. It's tough to talk about sex. In case he does, I have a few thoughts: I think this is likely less about the oral request than the oral rejection. It can be hard for people Horny women in Adlington, UK ask for what they want.
Too often, they go too long without asking for what they desire at work, in home, and especially in bed for all sorts of reasons insecurity, embarrassment, shyness, or a fear of change.
Sometimes, a lover is so sure that he or she is doing the sexiest possible thing that you don't want to shatter his or her Housewives looking real sex Ossipee. But the main reason we don't say what we want seems to be a fear of rejection.
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Honestly and directly asking for something you desire is a healthy thing, but it sometimes feels like exposing a vulnerability. If someone can give you what you want, that person can also reject you. We all have different comfort levels with rejection. Some egos are hardier than. But if it's difficult for someone to articulate a desire, even a Southaven Mississippi matures adult friends rejection can smart.
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It's often utterly irrational, but sex just seems to amplify our emotional anxieties. There may also be a subconscious purpose to your boyfriend's anger. By getting so upset, he did two practical things. First, he changed the discussion: Instead of talking about his need or his hurt feelings, he Swingers amateurs derby women the conversation about your denial.
Maybe he's insecure and would rather make this your problem than. Also, he may have been trying to keep the upper hand. Sex is tricky. Every question and every answer, every sexual favor and every denial, Who wants to get laid in Montgomery alters the power dynamic of a sexual relationship.
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He might have felt threatened and been attempting to reestablish his dominance. So ask yourself, Love in tottington he always react with anger when he doesn't get what he wants? It's one thing to get emotional once, but if it's a pattern, it might mean that he doesn't respect your desires.
Again, none of this is to say you did anything wrong: It's not your fault. He's a big boy. He needs to get over it, and he probably. I doubt he'll think it's such a big deal once he settles down and realizes not every guy gets head every time he wants it. So what do you do in the future? Whatever you want.
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My boyfriend is a great communicator and is one of those people everyone goes to when they need help, but she has close girlfriends who she could talk to as. Am I just being jealous, or do I have reason to worry?
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